There is something bothering my mind as well about relationship issue. What I have found is, a relationship is not just loving each other or understand each other but love also need to be fair to each other. Nowadays, it is clearly shows that every relationship will not stand long because of the value of selfish from one side.

I don't know why some people never give space to their partner. And the most annoying attitude that I am highly disagree is when your partner try to have their own privacy, you will try to digging up about her and insist want to know what kind of privacy that they have.

Let us talked about the issue that I highlighted above. When your partner freely enjoy with their mobile phones and busy with their own things, then when it is comes to your side, when you want to play with your mobile phones and keep yourself busy to entertain yourself, your partner will try to sneaking out the things that makes you busy. What do you feel if this situation happens to you?

I bet most of this kind of people never know the meaning of BE FAIR. Please do open your eyes, when your partner never bother what you are doing, and just keep yourself free with whatever you do, why don't you do the same thing? This selfish attitude will make you lose your partner easily.

If you do something bad behind your partner, and one day your partner did not trust you and your relationship hanging, do not blame them and just take whatever punishment that they give to you. Forcing them and act aggressively will make them more angry with you and at last you will lose your partner.

The only solution that can managed this issue is by being fair to each other and be honest in your relationship. Always remember that when your partner lose the trust towards you, it is hard for them to trust in you and when it getting worst, they will decide their own decision without thinking about you at all. This time, you do not have right to called them SELFISH or being UNFAIR in relationship.