Have you ever imagine that you will meet your soulmate and will live happily forever? Everyone need that and so do I. But can you look around you and look at the reality of love relationship happening around you. I bet no one want to live miserable like those partner who are not in a good relationship. As human being, God create us in partners and it is not like when you born, your partner already on your side but there will be the right time your partner will come to your live and complete your journey.

The question now is, before you found your partner, what kind of situations that you have been through in your life just to find happiness in your life? Me myself asking this question to motivate myself.

 Some of us might directly found their partner and will get married and have babies but their challenge will be in their marriage. The loyal of your partner will be tested during marriage and will you yourself able to handle the situation wisely? Or will it ended in court and divorced?

  Some of us will faced those challenge before marriage, they will meet different kind of partner and failed in their relationship. The failure doesn't mean it is the end of your life but it is the obstacle of a human being in this world. The more challenge they faced, the more wiser they will handle the future problems that will come over their life.

 God loves each of us, and HE will test us with the situation that HE believed we can handle by ourselves. HE won't give you a challenge that will deceased you or making you miserable in life. It is just depends on our own if we can find our way out of the situation. Well, most likely we need to use our brain to think wisely and act  accurately so that we won't regret in future.

 Love is not only between a male and female that keep each other together and be happy but love will shows the real personality of ourselves. How we treat our partner is the real character of you in real life. You won't act like you are an angel when you stay with your partner but you will show your true color to them.

 Are you a loyal person or are you a honest person, you can look at it when you are with your partner. Are you hypocrite person that have a lots of drama in yourself? Or are you can be trusted or not? I have seen lots of character and lots of drama in my life. And I don't want those experienced destroy my hope on there is a good guy out there who is belong to me.

 The words that the couples always use, "I love you, baby," "I missed you so much," I can't wait to meet you, honey," "You are my angel, honey,"...those words is so damn lovely and romantic but please don't ever use these words to cheat and play with their feelings. Once the heart bleed, nothing can make it cure back unless the soul that you have play around forgive you with whole their heart. Trust won't be gaining again once the heart bleed but you will faced the insult everyday you saw their faced. Nobody can barely stand their pain but they have to faced it because they make mistake to give whole heart to you.

 I hate liars and I really hate when someone have promised that they will changed but they won't even feel to changed even a bit for their life. The worst personality that I really hate to handle is a personality that is crazy about woman, about sex life and about being player. These people won't changed until they have been hit by something that will make them regret for their whole life.

 When the heart you can't even can take care, you don't deserve to have them anymore in your life. You totally won't have right to stop them when they decide to leave you.