There is something bothering my mind as well about relationship issue. What I have found is, a relationship is not just loving each other or understand each other but love also need to be fair to each other. Nowadays, it is clearly shows that every relationship will not stand long because of the value of selfish from one side.

I don't know why some people never give space to their partner. And the most annoying attitude that I am highly disagree is when your partner try to have their own privacy, you will try to digging up about her and insist want to know what kind of privacy that they have.

Let us talked about the issue that I highlighted above. When your partner freely enjoy with their mobile phones and busy with their own things, then when it is comes to your side, when you want to play with your mobile phones and keep yourself busy to entertain yourself, your partner will try to sneaking out the things that makes you busy. What do you feel if this situation happens to you?

I bet most of this kind of people never know the meaning of BE FAIR. Please do open your eyes, when your partner never bother what you are doing, and just keep yourself free with whatever you do, why don't you do the same thing? This selfish attitude will make you lose your partner easily.

If you do something bad behind your partner, and one day your partner did not trust you and your relationship hanging, do not blame them and just take whatever punishment that they give to you. Forcing them and act aggressively will make them more angry with you and at last you will lose your partner.

The only solution that can managed this issue is by being fair to each other and be honest in your relationship. Always remember that when your partner lose the trust towards you, it is hard for them to trust in you and when it getting worst, they will decide their own decision without thinking about you at all. This time, you do not have right to called them SELFISH or being UNFAIR in relationship.

Have you ever imagine that you will meet your soulmate and will live happily forever? Everyone need that and so do I. But can you look around you and look at the reality of love relationship happening around you. I bet no one want to live miserable like those partner who are not in a good relationship. As human being, God create us in partners and it is not like when you born, your partner already on your side but there will be the right time your partner will come to your live and complete your journey.

The question now is, before you found your partner, what kind of situations that you have been through in your life just to find happiness in your life? Me myself asking this question to motivate myself.

 Some of us might directly found their partner and will get married and have babies but their challenge will be in their marriage. The loyal of your partner will be tested during marriage and will you yourself able to handle the situation wisely? Or will it ended in court and divorced?

  Some of us will faced those challenge before marriage, they will meet different kind of partner and failed in their relationship. The failure doesn't mean it is the end of your life but it is the obstacle of a human being in this world. The more challenge they faced, the more wiser they will handle the future problems that will come over their life.

 God loves each of us, and HE will test us with the situation that HE believed we can handle by ourselves. HE won't give you a challenge that will deceased you or making you miserable in life. It is just depends on our own if we can find our way out of the situation. Well, most likely we need to use our brain to think wisely and act  accurately so that we won't regret in future.

 Love is not only between a male and female that keep each other together and be happy but love will shows the real personality of ourselves. How we treat our partner is the real character of you in real life. You won't act like you are an angel when you stay with your partner but you will show your true color to them.

 Are you a loyal person or are you a honest person, you can look at it when you are with your partner. Are you hypocrite person that have a lots of drama in yourself? Or are you can be trusted or not? I have seen lots of character and lots of drama in my life. And I don't want those experienced destroy my hope on there is a good guy out there who is belong to me.

 The words that the couples always use, "I love you, baby," "I missed you so much," I can't wait to meet you, honey," "You are my angel, honey,"...those words is so damn lovely and romantic but please don't ever use these words to cheat and play with their feelings. Once the heart bleed, nothing can make it cure back unless the soul that you have play around forgive you with whole their heart. Trust won't be gaining again once the heart bleed but you will faced the insult everyday you saw their faced. Nobody can barely stand their pain but they have to faced it because they make mistake to give whole heart to you.

 I hate liars and I really hate when someone have promised that they will changed but they won't even feel to changed even a bit for their life. The worst personality that I really hate to handle is a personality that is crazy about woman, about sex life and about being player. These people won't changed until they have been hit by something that will make them regret for their whole life.

 When the heart you can't even can take care, you don't deserve to have them anymore in your life. You totally won't have right to stop them when they decide to leave you.